If you go in the hospital lost the baby do they send you home 12 hrs later?

That's not true. Whoever has told you this was lying. I lost a little boy at almost 20 weeks pregnant,and had a ton of ultrasounds,and (they didn't make me) but I had him cremated because I had to actually give birth,and he was almost a stillborn (wasn't at the mark where they call them that yet). At that far along she would have had to arrange at least a proper burial. They wanted to keep me overnight at the hospital to watch the bleeding and to keep me on "suicide watch" because of the event,but let me go when I had two people that were going to stay with me all night (my husband and mom) verify to the doctors that they were going to be there,and sign release forms. Even at almost 20 weeks I had to get a proper birth/death certificate because he lived for one minute.