What is wrong with me????

i've known this guy for like seven years now...he is the most interesting, iest, smartest, funniest, strongest, guy that i know. he's great. we're great friends,and we've been boning for about three years now.we are not in a "relationship" it's more like "f" buddies when it comes to that part, but im also really close to him as a friend. he joined the navy about a year ago and i rarely get to see him now, sure we talk on the phone a lot but that isnt the same. i miss him so much and i dont know what to do. i just want my friend back. i cant stop thinking about him, and it hurts so bad.i'm getting all teary-eyed just typing this. how do i make it stop hurting? and dont say that time heals all wounds, it's been a year of this now, and dont say get another friend cause i have plenty of friends, and dont say get a man either cause i tryed that too and i just want my friend back, its not about the , even though that is a bonus. somebody please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!